Establishing the flexibility of marriage while integrating the family: 7 points

So you decide to integrate your family. The process of integrating families is a complex and emotional effort. The dynamics and struggles of merging families in remarriage have been written a lot. Therefore, this short article focuses on from

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1. Set and enforce clear boundaries for your marriage

Set boundaries for your marriage; respect them and be consistent. The border provides protection and guidance on how couples behave, interact with each other and with outsiders. The boundaries that a couple may set for their marriage may include the following:

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  Keep sensitive and confidential information about your spouse [for example, we do not discuss marriage complaints with family or former spouse]

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  Responsible for their personal feelings, not requiring their spouse to feel the same for everything

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  Act in a manner that respects the spouse and demonstrates self-esteem [for example, not using name calls during the debate].

I can't stress how important this is. The lack of boundaries in marriage can be catastrophic. If you are not sure about the state of the boundary in your relationship, please call me; I am happy to work with you.

2. Recognize that your relationship with your spouse is different from your relationship with your child.

While it is important to meet the needs of children in the family, it is important to strengthen the relationship between husband and wife. The relationship with children is to love, nurture, guide, train, nurture and give them to the world as valuable contributors. The relationship with your spouse is for both of you. It is to love and nurture, to enjoy and value the people they have become, to achieve goals together, and to share dreams. The relationship between husband and wife is to share personal satisfaction and enjoyment between the two. from

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3. Dating your spouse

The dating practice will be put on hold after saying "I do." Dating with a spouse becomes more important when you are a family. This is an important part of determining your identity as a married couple, not just a parent or stepfather. It also creates a culture in your new family, which shows that marriage is important. Dating your spouse gives your child and stepchild a chance to witness positive marriage behavior. This approach also gives you and your spouse the opportunity to strengthen and maintain your contact. While converging your family, you will need support from each other.

4. Be careful when receiving "good faith" advice

Friends and family are full of "goodwill" and unsolicited advice. Such advice can sometimes be counterproductive and interfere, which is intrusive and destructive. You may even inadvertently cause your relationship to become a gossip topic in your social circle, causing your marriage to become more tense. When seeking advice about your marriage in a mixed family, talk to someone who can give you constructive and objective advice while maintaining the privacy of your personal information. If no one in your life can provide this service, please contact a licensed consultant. Your relationship is worth it.

5. Always check in with your spouse. Communication!

Be careful not to let the illegal behavior not be solved and resolved. Communication can act as a cleaner in the relationship. You can build a resilient marriage through healthy, continuous communication.

When you integrate your family, you will encounter difficulties; expect them and plan as much as possible. Before the wedding, communicate financial, discipline, housework, living arrangements, etc.

6. Express your trust for things that you do well.

Determine your strengths as a couple and be prepared for your own business. If you work hard to make time for each other or improve the way you communicate with your spouse, then you should appreciate these things. But don't stop there. Continue to learn new skills and increase your connection with your spouse.

7. If things get too much, please seek professional help.

Sometimes we are too involved in our own situation and see things clearly. Meeting with a licensed consultant can provide a fair view of your situation. Counselors can help you and your spouse find tools to strengthen your connections while blending with your family.

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