For me, the most valuable thing I have to give to someone is my friendship. It is real and tested, it is not given and despised, as long as someone wants it will exist.
In the past few years, I have become more aware of the deep friendship and the friendships that only have the experience of "what can I get from it". These are just friendships for some reason or season.
Anyone who has worked with me for many years knows my philosophy in building relationships. This is not something that happens overnight, but is given before it is obtained. The true relationship, whether it is a business relationship or a personal relationship, begins with giving space rather than giving space. I believe that by giving, in return, you will receive it.
However, from my experience, this is not necessarily the same. I have been very disappointed and hurt when I think that intimate and dear friends have disintegrated because of lack of good communication and perception.
I realize that all relationships have a reason, a season or a lifetime. For me, I try to make them unforgettable for life. If the other side wants to return, they always open the door. At the end of time, for whatever reason, this will not make things easier. Obviously for them, the purpose of their relationship/friendship is no longer, so the state has changed.
The reason for meeting someone may be just teaching a class and only having experience. A season may be a few weeks, months or years, and a lifetime is a kind of enduring all friendships, not experience breaking. There are no rules or expectations for a lifelong friendship.
My friendship is the most important part of my life. When this happens to me and my dear ones, the betrayal will be very deep. I love my friends, on many levels, who they are and the world they bring to me. I am grateful and thank you for giving me the opportunity to learn and grow. I won't let the relationship end easily, and there are always other options.
When a relationship enters a deeper friendship, there is a subtle boundary, and understanding is necessary. I treat people as people I describe to myself. Sometimes it's easy to be deceived, maybe stupid, but unless I think and have reason to not go there, my door is always open.
I think about the ability of some people to easily close the door without any concept of legacy issues. I want to know how different if I am more critical of my life?
Today's new way of building friendships through social media and text messaging has some very good advantages, as well as some catastrophic consequences, because there is a lack of ability to express oneself besides black and white. Relationships need to be "gray" in them and expressed through feelings, facial features and body language, all of which are cancelled by this new way of communication. No wonder we face so many challenges in this area, and I say it from my personal experience here.
Learning through me through these media is huge. Although sometimes heartbreaking, I feel very lost because of one or more lives, and I can no longer influence all growth.
As a fan of one person, what others have provided for my growth has always been a charm. We all have very different empirical models, such as our beliefs and values. We can improve our awareness of others and our self-awareness by opening our peripheral vision and looking at things from another angle, while gaining a deeper understanding of our own internal world maps and seeing inappropriate places.
As a friend, where are you standing? Are you a true or a fake friend? I suggest you consider the friendships you have and how they fit into your world.
What are your expectations for friendship? What are their views on this? This can be a good conversation with them so that you can keep the same page hurt and disappointing and not sure about the future. But remember, others will hear from your own consciousness and experience.
Since I have the ability to give them growth unconditionally, I have a lot of friendships, I am ready. With these people, I feel very fortunate, I have the opportunity to reflect and see the results of my own learning. There was a time when I wanted to know why any sane person would do this and often suffer from injuries without much reward. Besides knowing where I am, I am providing growth and learning for us, while others may never give it. .
If you don't have the learning experience of giving and entering the community, it's hard to give because I already know that it's usually a learned behavior. I have learned from boarding schools and community experiences for many years. I am very fortunate to have a complete family connection when I was very young. It is imperative to share the growth of my children. As my grandparents, aunts, uncles and friends are on call, taking over when parents need them, I have given me different opinions. Now I think this is my good teacher.
I suggest that you review how you think about your friendship and what it brings to everyone's growth. By doing this, you will understand yourself and how you can make a difference in today's world.
For some reason, is it a season or a relationship with people in your life?
Orignal From: Friendship - Are you true or false?
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