"A person should not be too honest." Straight trees were cut off, and honest people were first tightened, "Chanakya.
In the face of the suffering of marriage, my experience can be used as a reference guide. If you do not take wise action, this kind of suffering will increase with the passage of time. Therefore, if you ignore the intentional horror when trying to retrieve a relationship, it is recommended to try to correlate the scene and perform a logical assessment. This is not something you can laugh at. I found that my husband didn't want to be happy, celebrate or enjoy my company. Neglecting or avoiding the situation will make these people's behaviors stronger. I will ask you to make rules for behaviors and procedures in your family. It is important to observe and evaluate the performance and behavior of a partner in a married life.
Why am I bothering this now? Just because I don't have the courage to determine the symptoms at the right time to get positive changes. I don't know what to do, but I often feel the pain in my heart. I am treated neglected and ineffective. Isolation really hurts my inner strength. Hey! I am eager to talk to my companions. For me, the family still wants me to take care of everyone. It involves mental health problems and chronic physical health problems. In addition, it turns out that this is a relationship that is closely related to life. I often feel embarrassed, as if my pain may be my fault. Everyone is in the best behavior at the beginning of a life relationship because they want their life partner to like them. I just outlined the situation I have to face. Providing details will cover the pain of up to 13 years.
The results of my case appeared within a few days, when there were some obvious flaws. I found myself in a convincing, selfish and suffocating environment that was beyond my reach. My husband's family used to be happy to disrespect or sing anyone who has these reasons. The days of the wedding ceremony are auspicious to everyone, no matter what the faith. At the time of my wedding ceremony, she covered my daughter's shawl to cover me - I had to throw it on the ground. When asked about this - she said she didn't know the custom. My values and beliefs have gradually changed due to the actions of him and his mother. They made every effort to isolate me from my family and friends because they never welcomed my relationship. He always supports their actions. The fact of life is that an unpleasant relationship will spread toxins in your life. Successful interpersonal relationships have positive characteristics of mutual trust. Without it, this relationship will not be full of energy.
You will want to know - why have I been in such a toxic relationship for so long? In fact, losing a relationship is not just a loss. It hurts your spirit and your child/child. There is a problem with each relationship, because the two different people bound by the marriage relationship need to be adjusted and adjusted here and there. A thriving relationship has the characteristics of a partner who handles the problem correctly. In my case, it is not like that. This is a one-sided thing. I have to endure, adjust, adapt and maintain this relationship, he/they are poisonous and awkward.
If my husband is not a support tool, it is easy to avoid all the toxins and laugh very happy. In a way, he did succeed in hiding his shortcomings, but I was determined to transform him/they. Like his father, he was a very honest person at the beginning. However, his mother was poisoned by his ears and could not be repaired. Their brainwashing has played a leading role in the success of our relationship. I used to feel helpless, more like a housekeeper than a wife or mother.
Orignal From: My experience as a wife and wife
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