"Charm is deceptive, beauty is short-lived," Proverbs said at 31:30. "But the woman who fears the Lord is to be praised."
Her temptation to be tempted is not a woman's fault.
Romance is the most important of all the names of people who enter romantic relationships. But there is a correlation between charm and control.
The more attractive a man is in his woman's romance, the more likely he may be in control when romance disappears. Men with violent problems are often over-glamorous men.
Charisma is decisive
Oh, how easy we are to be fascinated. But the charm is deceptive. This is a distortion of the facts. However, as long as everyone knows it is a joke, then humor will be full of real charm, which can explain non-truth.
Charisma can be deceptive, but that doesn't mean some people don't have some real value. But when it comes to a person who feels a little too good - a miracle full of charm - should be reasonable and skeptical.
In terms of trust, there is no time to replace. People should win our trust if we want to give them the keys to the heart, especially if we want them to come into contact with our loved ones.
Beauty is a young man
Things that look beautiful at first are not always lasting.
Is it not surprising that we often make the first and most important commitment to the relationship before the end of the romantic phase and the beginning of the power struggle?
The initial beauty we saw in one person probably became disgusted for a long time, and it took a night in the relationship [if it survived this transition] and entered a stable phase.
But a woman who is afraid of the Lord...
For the woman who saw the charm, how much he praised him actually! She is cautious and skeptical.
For her, charm is the imagination of the shadow experience: control. Can this person be a controller? What is his shadow aspect? If he has too much charm, does he still need [excessive] control? How much potential does he have to control #?
A woman who fears the Lord, she hides her heart under the protection of the Holy Spirit. This way the prospect of a man must meet the Lord, and then she can see that she is open to his progress - she should be praised.
But we must show sympathy to those who trust a person who is not trustworthy. As a society, we often forgive this person's violence and make the victims of violence bear the responsibility that should never be borne.
We put the woman who fears the Lord on a pedestal, and we are ashamed of other women who have made the mistakes we made. If there is a temptation, we are all easily tempted to make us feel worthy of our value, we may not, deep down, feel that we deserve it.
How wonderful it is when a person of the opposite sex sees that we deserve to love them generously. But let this idea become a trigger for what we don't want to see, but be wise to accept [if it is there].
A woman who fears the Lord describes a companion who also fears the Lord.
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Many men who control violence with their partners are initially charming men. They are still attractive. They attract their partners ' family, so that she may be suspected and distrustful.
But this charm is short-lived; knowing that they are long enough and good enough, their true form will become apparent. Everyone's fruit will mature. Every piece falls from the tree and is ready to taste. Not all fruits make our tastes enjoyable!
Similarly, men with violent problems are often over-characterized men.
©2015 SJ Wickham.
Orignal From: Domestic violence - when charm enters control quickly
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